Let’s face it: as a woman, you must have found at least one bad boy extremely attractive.
It could be anyone, fictional too, like Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing or Channing Tatum in the Step-Up movies. Their exotic charm and devilish smile make them intimidating yet endearing. As the saying goes, “good guys finish last” because many women find challenging men more exciting and attractive.
But it doesn’t imply that good boys should lose hope. A clear difference exists between being a “bad boy” and becoming a lousy human. This article will highlight this difference and explain the chemistry behind women’s attraction towards the bad boys.
What Makes a Boy the “Bad Boy”?
It is a fusion of many factors, including confidence, dominance, a witty sense of humor, assertiveness, and intellect. “Bad boys” in the current era are more sophisticated and charming; hence, more dangerous.
They’re Not Pushovers
Thanks to their confident aura and dominant nature, they never let anyone walk over them. It also makes them stronger and well respected in their circle. Most will not dare to mess with them.
They Are Intellectuals and Hidden Geniuses
No, a bad boy doesn’t fail or fear; that will be too humiliating for their egos. Instead, they prefer being the hidden genius who excels academically and soars to newer heights professionally.
“The Hard to Get” Demeanor
Bad boys are known for sending mixed signals and avoiding showing their vulnerable side to women. The mysterious, “hard to get” demeanor is intriguing and captivating.
Willing to Take Risks
Unlike people who overthink every little life decision, these men are more open-minded toward taking risks. They also encourage their better halves to follow their heart, which can liberate and empower many.
Why Do Women Fall for Bad Boys? – The Chemistry Behind the Mystery
A narcissistic, insensitive man can never make anyone happy. However, a man with all the above qualities, emotional intelligence, and honesty is a whole package anyone would love to have.
A study shows that a good personality can overshadow good looks in people. Warmth, kindness, and basic decency are valued by everyone equally. Even though a person may look cold, rude, and arrogant, they must be friendly, humble, and attentive to their loved ones, especially the ones they want to have a happily ever after with.
Are These Relationships Sustainable?
Even though bad boys are known for being cold and playing the enemy, they can be loyal partners.
Every man wants to be loved and cared for, and when they find the one, they will do everything in their power never let her go. Even a bad boy becomes vulnerable and genuine to his desires and fears in front of his one and only.
Meet Ethan Mitchel —The Perfect “Bad Boy” With Only a Soft Side for Maya
As said earlier, bad boys can be narcissistic hunks sometimes, especially when you are living with them under one roof. Maya Johnson, a medical student, is also in the same shoes; she has to live with her brother and her brother’s best friend, Ethan, during college. And she hates it already. Ethan is arrogant and extremely attractive at the same time. Maya hates him but can’t help herself.
Their feelings are mutual, but he is off limits; bad boys can never be trusted and he’s her brother’s best friend. Will Ethan change for Maya? Or will this attraction end up in an ugly heartbreak? Find out in Elle North’s contemporary romance, Addicted to Dr. Off Limits, now live on Amazon.
